It’s important to remember those little habits you used to have, when you were with someone but have dropped them since time has passed. Back in the beginning of your relationship the two of you always seemed hot for each other. Whether it was little glances that no one else caught or small pats on the bum while in public. But the longer you’re together the more you get to know each other’s bodies and things get less exciting. But there is a way to get back into sexy habits. All it takes is a little effort.
Get Ready for Her
When you get up in the morning, get ready. Not just for work or the rest of your day but for her. There was once a time when you probably spruced yourself up when you knew she was coming over. Now all of the awkward personal hygiene is out in the open instead of being hidden behind cologne and hair gel. Take bath and actually choose your clothes; the one she likes and the ones that look good on you.
Start Touching Her More
Touch her arms, her back, or whatever other favorite part of her that you have. Your touch will make her feel more physical and sexy in her skin. Most likely she’ll start giving you little caresses which will boost your self esteem in turn. One of the easiest parts of touching is the bit that happens in public. Giving her bottom a little smack or her neck a good, full kiss feels sexy, like it should be happening in the bedroom instead of out in the public.
Wear Sexy Underwear
Yes it sounds a bit silly since most men don’t really have lingerie, but bust out the tiny undies that show off your body. Even if she giggles at first, she’ll appreciate the sentiment. It may even help her start wearing those little nighties you bought for her years ago that she hasn’t even looked out recently.
Talk to Her Sexy
It’s easy to get in the habit of just texting her or hanging up the phone at the end of a conversation. When you talk to her (in person or not) really talk to her. Call her pet names, tell her how good she looks, and use your expressions to let her know how much you want her. A classic way to get the engine revving is to use all of those naughty words you never say out loud and write her an email or text saying what you want to do to her after work that night. Whatever you write her, poetic or not, will be hotter than any romance novel that she can pick up in stores.
Once you start getting a few of the sexy habits back that you had lost or replaced with sloppy ones, more will automatically start coming. It will be easier to get her excited without even really trying.